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    November 06

    我有权利在中国过传统中国人的生活

    半个小时前我还在想,去不去。
     
    今晚10点有老板的乐队演出,我们理应去捧场的,很多同事都会去。可是首先我不是那么fancy酒吧那种喧闹放肆地方,而且我已经辛苦工作了五天,那种超级消耗精力和银子的地方,对我的身心没有任何好处。而且北京的冬天,夜晚将非常冻人。
     
    后来我终于想开了:不去就不去,关照自己的身心比做面子重要多了。我喜欢茶的清新和咖啡的浓情,但不喜欢酒的迷醉。这就是我。
     
    这一秒宿醉下一秒开会,那是西方人习惯。他们就是比中国人能喝,能撑。毋庸置疑,我更适合中国的传统文化,更适应清静理性的养生之道。我不喜欢很晚还在外面狂欢,第二天下午醒来却什么都不记得。我喜欢晚上踏踏实实在家里看电视,看书,上网,早早钻进被窝。可是在外企工作的我们,有时发现我们不仅需要接受西方人的工作方式,还要接受一些西方人的娱乐习惯,当你周围有一半以上都是外国人,而且大多数外国人都是老板级别的时候。
     
    今天我还是决定大家一起好好的工作,但是不陪着他们玩儿了。工作是工作,生活是生活。如果我现在在外国,为了融入别人的文化和社交圈子,我会说服自己去加入和适应别人的方式,可是我现在在中国。这是在我们自己的地盘上,我高兴干嘛就干嘛,真的不必妥协,不是吗?
     
    不去了。

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    zhen xiangwrote:
    To all: live our own lives!
    Nov. 18
    Yuting Fanwrote:
    汗死……我就在国外……努力适应了一阵之后终于决定放弃了……
    Nov. 18
    yuan cuiwrote:
    嗯嗯,就是!
    Nov. 12
    Yong Liwrote:
    其实,真正的外国人特别尊敬他人,尊敬个人的自由和选择。你大可不必用中国文化和习俗“硬套”在他们身上,随你怎样他们都会理解你!如果你在国外生活过,你就会理解什么是真正的“我行我素”了。别为别人活着。
    Nov. 9
    zhen xiangwrote:
    To Yinbo: 这句是某房地产公司的广告词,本身写得不错:)
    To Jingyi: 咱俩连去出去旅游的时候还按时上床睡觉。。。。。。
    To Si: 你在我眼中一直是“很能融入”欧美社会的典范阿
    To Shanshan: hug
    To xuehua: 让我们继续发扬懒羊羊精神
    Nov. 8
    si leewrote:
    写的很好。更何况,文化是多元化的,社交圈也是多元化的。我现在越来越觉得,其实根本没有所谓的“融入”这回事。纽约,巴黎,伦敦,都是多元种族文化的地方,越不“融入”,社交圈其实就变的越大。欧洲人很喜欢用自己的背景去“judge”别人。我猜你的同事也只是找个乐子,估计很多人其实也不原意去呢,哈哈。
    Nov. 8
    婧怡 王wrote:
    咱俩一个风格......都是几乎没怎么"年轻"过....
    我也就大一的时候熬夜唱个几次通宵,之后再也撑不住了...
    生命在于养生
    Nov. 8
    Bo Yinwrote:
    喜欢这句: 这一秒宿醉下一秒开会
    Nov. 7
    珊珊 连wrote:
    一直喜欢真的style。。
    Nov. 7
    Safina Zhouwrote:
    lol, then it seems i m still young...not as young as before though..
    Nov. 6
    vivian luwrote:
    嗯 我们都躲进暖暖的卧室盖上被子睡大觉
    Nov. 6
    zhen xiangwrote:
    to Safina: perhaps i am getting old...the question is, it seems i had never been that young.
    to Joy and Liyuanyuan: enjoy your overseas life
    Nov. 6
    Yuanyuan Liwrote:
    yes!!
    Nov. 6
    Safina Zhouwrote:
    。。。不喜欢就不去咯~~哈哈我还是挺ENJOY那种日子的
    Nov. 6
    Joy Jiawrote:
    对,说得特别对。不刻意坚持什么,安然地按照自己的方式生活,接受不同但不盲从,这样才好。
    Nov. 6

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